Dj Gifted Son

Should I invite my mother-in-law of 2nd son of my birthday party?
My mother-in-law is crazy and the 1st birthday of my son shouted and screem all the guests, the DJ slapped for not playing the songs she wanted, and finally made a speech about religion and how parties celbrating birthday is bad and only one way to get the presents. If I celebrate my son 2nd birthday on a large scale this year after my husband wants to include his family (he says nothing to his mother about his behavior) but if I do a small party with some friends then you have to invite them. I wish I could have a big party and not invite, but how I can convince my husband. What should I do?
How to cope with their mother for the rest of the year. to be very difficult for you all, including her husband because his mother and he knows what it is similar but he does not do anything about it. i suggest that for this year to make one more game small and without it at some point during the next year to start talking about this issue. because it is a real problem. then you must resolve with his pleasant manner that its going to handle all future events including Christmas and holidays. good luck husband and all my best wishes for a peaceful solution
Kansas – Carry On Wayward Son (1976)